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	<title>Self Help and Self Improvement &#187; How do you care for someone?</title>
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		<title>How do you care for someone?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 06:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So often we pretend to care about someone.  We convince our self that we are concerned for their happiness.  But when our emotions become a wave of reaction to them our own well being is now at stake.  When this happens our caring for them becomes unduly influenced to try and make our self feel [...] <a href="http://www.toltecmasteries.com/toltec/how-do-you-care-for-someone/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So often we pretend to care about someone.  We convince our self that we are concerned for their happiness.  But when our emotions become a wave of reaction to them our own well being is now at stake.  When this happens our caring for them becomes unduly influenced to try and make our self feel better.   At this point our caring for them might more honestly be called selfishness.</p>
<p>For specific exercises for identifying and dissolving fear based beliefs based in <a class="ld_link" href="http://toltecmysteryschool.com/" target="_self" title="the Four Agreements">the Four Agreements</a>, begin with the free practices in the <a href="http://pathwaytohappiness.com/self_mastery.htm">Self Mastery </a>audio program.</p>
<p>The original  post located at <a href="http://www.toltecspirit.com/2009/04/how-do-you-care-for-someone/">What it means to Care For Someone</a></p>
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